‘How crazy are all their exes’: 35 things people brag about without realizing it’s a major red flag about them
“I don’t like to brag. However-”
We all know that being humble is a great quality, but there is also a time and place to celebrate our accomplishments. Do you want a PhD? You deserve to be proud of it. Overcome life-threatening illnesses? I don’t blame you for telling everyone you know. Run an ultramarathon? This is something worth posting on Facebook. But if you get less than 5 hours of sleep each night, can drink a whole bottle of tequila, or think all exes are “toxic and crazy,” keep those things to yourself. You may want to keep…
One curious Reddit user recently We asked people to share what others are proud of., and the reader did not withhold a reply. So, below, we’ve compiled a list of these qualities and ‘achievements’ that people should stop being proud of, just to remind them of the proud pandas to look out for.
Be sure to upvote the answers you strongly agree with.Also, let us know in the comments what other brags will kick you out the door. bored panda This article explains the red flags to look out for. Here!
People who can solve any problem instantly.
thick? Eat less. Addicted? finish. depression? laugh more broken? Get a better job. tired? sleep more.
Social issues are nuanced. If you’re in your 20s or older and can’t think critically, that’s a red flag.
They boast how many drinks you can “go home without a problem.”
A self-victim who must sacrifice everyone within a 100 foot radius. No one, that is *nobody* – has *ever* been harder than they did/did. One Upper (or One Downer?) Extraordinary.
Also, “Nice Guys”. “I’m the nicest guy you’ve ever met” = Run!
People brag about how scared they are, and they know how crazy they are, so no one crosses them
“Owning” or “provoking” people: “I’m so difficult to get along with that I could piss someone off with the slightest interaction.” It’s not the flex that people in the department think.
how much they work and how much they sleep. He is an unbalanced person, and is unlikely to have an idea of ”success” that includes other people.
How much they “don’t care what others think”.
If I had to constantly say “I don’t care” to others or myself, I would *absolutely* do so.
“More than half of the students will quit this class before the semester ends. The other half won’t.” After researching him, I’m pretty sure most people quit because his teaching style was counterproductive and half of the class time was spent talking to them. I requested to be added to another professor.
Being “terribly honest” or “no filter”. This usually indicates a severe lack of tact.
Source: me. I’m this guy in my early twenties and I’ve since cooled down.
Scored four touchdowns in one game for Polk High School in Chicago at the 1966 City Championship
I have a colleague like my first colleague. I usually have a one-upper, and I’ve had a really hard life. But she can’t talk about herself for more than 30 seconds before you talk about how great she is or how much harder she’s been than you.
This is the relational version. Asshole. “
How quickly they cut people out of their lives.
Cutting people out of life can sometimes be a good thing. There are certainly people who are toxic to you, but you can live a better life without their influence or presence.
People who really brag about this are usually those who refuse to accept their personal mistakes or to work on themselves.
Oh, the guy at work who was able to buy all the toilet paper during the pandemic and sell it to his co-workers for a higher price.
They can keep their Mercedes. I don’t want to be a monster.
Toxic, “Oh I’m literally so manipulative uwu 🥺 Everyone is afraid of me. Hehehe I’m so problematic and toxic. *insert problematic stuff/
Offensive remarks* No one can mess with me. [take out] Their whole family🤪I once hit someone for bumping into me.I always take advantage of people for my own sake.
f*****g a person who makes life choices based on astrology
Their extravagant material possessions and extravagant lives despite being in debt and having no money to support such a life.
lay off employees. You may have to, but when you brag about it (real *bragging*, not just talk), it sounds like you like using force to hurt the weak.
If a woman says, “I’m not about the drama,” she’s all about the drama.
How much they identify with the Joker, Tommy Shelby, Tyler Durden, Jordan Belfort, or many other characters like that.
have a dangerous pet
owns a lot of guns
being racist or anti-gay
to be rich
Standing up from people is not particularly difficult. People do this because they like the feeling of being in control, like they can offend someone else. I got
This goes back to my high school days, but I knew a kid who boasted that her mom didn’t care. She could drink, smoke, and do drugs! Half the time when you stopped by her mother offered to get you some medicine. I learned early on that this was not cool and was a serious red flag.
I’m not saying I grew up to be sober and perfect, but I find it insane to offer that to your child. She slept at my house most days until socializing was involved. Even after being separated from her mother, she still boasted to everyone at school how cool she was.
Sad to think what really happened to her.
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