Revenge is best eaten cold, but karma doesn’t have to show up right away. You can wait a minute. It can be subtle. gradually. And when your plans finally come together, it will only make the taste of victory sweeter.
Redditor u/ShepherdsWeShallB shared a story about how her sister, ‘Jen’, returned a year later to her husband, ‘Chris’, who demanded she lose weight so she could attend a company formal dinner. , Chris was almost clinically obese. Oh, and she promised her okay she’d lose her weight, but she had her secret twist ready for him.Here’s the full story told by the lady’s sister.
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A husband told his wife that he had to lose a lot of weight so he could attend an important event later in the year.
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The lady’s sister shared how she handled the whole situation in the best possible way
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My husband was completely amazed at how it all turned out
According to u/ShepherdsWeShallB, for her sister, her husband’s comments about losing weight “was the straw that broke the camel’s back.” He also rejected the idea of going to marriage counseling, accused his spouse of cheating on him, and joked to many that she was “stuck” with him.
So OP’s sister decided to follow her husband’s advice and get in shape for the big event at her employer. But not in the way he expected. She had great results and she became incredibly healthy in just 6 months. But the moment she achieved her goal, she filed for her divorce. And she showed up at her dress-up event…with a longtime friend of hers who also worked for her (now her ex) husband’s company.
This is malicious compliance at its best. And most readers took revenge for granted: “Chris” was as ready to put forth the same striving for marriage as his then-wife, “Jen,” the mother of her five children. It didn’t seem to work.
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Women were just a few pounds overweight, but men were obese themselves
Marriages and healthy long-term relationships depend on teamwork and communication. But it also requires a certain amount of self-awareness. No one likes hypocrites. Redditor u/ShepherdsWeShallB explained that her sister was “six pounds”. [2.7 kg] “Overweight” and was told to lose 30-40 pounds (13.6-18.1 kg). “Chris”, on the other hand, was “clinically near obese.” It’s more or less clear that if anyone had to worry about their weight, it was him.
An easy way to see if you’re at a healthy weight is to simply do it. BMI calculation. according to CDCIf your BMI is less than 18.5, you are considered underweight. If your score is over 25, you are overweight. Also, if your BMI is 30 or above, you are technically obese.
Of course, living a healthy and happy life is more than just weight. A lot also depends on the person’s lifestyle and quality of social life. However, being obese can have an incredibly negative impact on a person’s life.
CDC warns Obesity increases the risk of serious diseases and conditions such as hypertension, diabetes, coronary heart disease, stroke, gallbladder disease, cancer, clinical depression, and overall, significantly reduces quality of life. However, the effect is not limited to individuals.
Obesity-related medical costs in 2019 estimated It was almost $173 billion. The productivity cost of “obesity-related absenteeism” was calculated to be between $3.38 billion and $6.38 billion.
Both partners should respect each other.otherwise the relationship will not work
Respect, love and mutual attraction create the foundation for marriage. When only one person in a relationship has feelings and respect for the other, it can lead to many problems and eventually divorce.
It is important that spouses do not treat marriage as “just” dating.both partners really need i want the best For each other’s sake, we need to care for each other and not take the other for granted.
You are there for the long term (perhaps until the end of your life), so the idea is to treat the love of your life like this. love of your lifeBe supportive, actively listen to your partner, take time to discuss issues, work on issues and try to find compromises. This will help you keep your marriage healthy, rather than controlling your partner.
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