If it’s cold outside, put on a sweater, coat, or wrap your favorite oversized sweater around you. It’s common sense. However, some people about to get married may focus a little more on aesthetics and creating a particular image of themselves than on the well-being of their closest and dearest. is. In winter. in Northern England!
Bridesmaid Redditor u/Due-Resolve4835 shared that her dear friend banned her from wearing the coat because it could “ruin the picture.” Be careful in sub-zero temperatures. There was a spot of drama when she brought up this issue. So the woman turned to her AITA online her community to get a handle on the situation. Reddit has been very supportive.
Scroll down to see the full story and reactions from various internet users. After reading it, I would love to hear what you think, dear pandas. What would you have done with OP’s shoes? Have you ever been to a winter wedding? At what point do you cross the line to do something ‘for the picture’? Stop by the comments and share your thoughts and experiences.
bored panda We reached out to u/Due-Resolve4835 via Reddit, but she declined to comment on the situation. Meanwhile, Bored Panda contacted me. Anna and Sarah from wedding association A quick chat about feeling good and looking stylish no matter the weather, and how to broach difficult topics with brides-to-be (if you have one!).
One bridesmaid encountered a very unique situation.Her friend who had her winter wedding decided to ban her coat
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A woman shared this story online, asking the internet if it’s wrong to raise the issue of clothing
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She was blown away by the support (and witty comments) others shared with her
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From Anna wedding association, told Bored Panda, the guest “definitely needs to pick a layer!” When changing clothes at a wedding in the cold.
“This allows you to avoid large, bulky clothes that can make you look and feel a little more dressed down than you’d like, and allows you to add or remove layers to suit different rooms and areas day and night.” No matter,” she explained, versatility and flexibility are key here.
Bored Panda wanted to know The Wedding Society’s take on how bridesmaids voice unpopular proposals in the final stages before a wedding.
Here’s what Anna told us: Try not to submit proposals to married couples, especially in the last few weeks, unless you really have a good reason. You’ll be bombarded with suggestions about what to do,” she pointed out.
“They’re probably taking it seriously. And when all is said and done, it’s their day. They’re free to choose what they want, and guests either come or they don’t.” Give the couple some leeway in the final stages before the wedding, the stress can be overwhelming and they need love and understanding support from their loved ones.”
with some signs Symptoms of hypothermia Shaking, fatigue, confusion, memory loss, etc. Drowsiness, slurred speech, and hand fisting are also indications that you may need to see a doctor.
It is absolutely essential to get warm as soon as possible. Drink warm drinks, but avoid alcohol. Use dry blankets to keep the person warm. Please remove wet clothing beforehand. And be sure to contact your doctor.
The majority of the members of the AITA subreddit thought the OP was doing nothing wrong by raising the whole court issue with the bride. Winter is cold. I don’t want to ruin your health. And frankly, you’re invited, so you want to have fun. It’s a little harder to do when it’s so cold you don’t feel like you’re holding a champagne glass in your hand.
The last thing you want to do is spend the day with blue lips and chattering teeth.
Yes, it’s a celebration of the love of a happy couple. And most guests are willing to sacrifice time and money to share that special day.
There are many ways to solve similar situations. If it’s important for the bride to look good on everyone in her wedding photos, everyone can agree on wearing matching coats, scarves, and gloves. You can style it ahead of time for the cold weather of the season.
Another possible solution is to do a quick photo shoot before everyone gets really cold, and then allow everyone to warm up inside.
Another thing to consider is wearing a very discreet space-age winter suit under all your masquerade during the (hopefully very short) photo shoot.
But at the end of the day, open and honest communication helps solve these kinds of problems. Don’t be afraid to raise important issues. Diplomatically and very subtly, of course, simply because it’s someone’s wedding and everyone else is too afraid to speak up. should consider whether it is worth the stress of They address dozens, if not hundreds, of different details.
If you are a bridesmaid, the happy couple trusts you and respects your opinion. It may snap even if
Happy couples can check in with close family and friends to see if their requests are reasonable. If they are open to feedback, the wedding should be a success.
After all, it is wedding atmosphere You can remember how you were feeling that day, not the details. Focus on what matters most. And layered!