Bride asks her bridesmaids to get matching tattoos, major drama and breakup ensues after one refuses
Some go to any lengths to design the perfect wedding.From the decor to the music to the venue to the outfits, we have a concept in every detail. But most weddings have other people as well. And they cannot be easily molded and modified like cakes and bouquets.
But this inconvenient fact isn’t enough to stop a certain kind of person: one Internet user share Her story with the bride, her future sister-in-law, who had her own concept for her ideal wedding. Unfortunately for most of those involved, the concept envisioned all the bridesmaids getting the same tattoo before the ceremony.
Even the most large and over-planned weddings tend not to involve permanent changes to the bodies of the guests.
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A woman shared her story of helping her brother get married
Her SIL-to-be wanted to give it her all on this occasion
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She offered to help, but was a little overwhelmed with the responsibilities of her life.
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So she was somewhat out of the loop when she met the other bridesmaids at the tattoo parlor
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Faced with getting a tattoo, she chose to withdraw
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After all, she wasn’t the only one with doubts.
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People in volatile relationships sometimes believe the perfect wedding will save it
The stress of planning a wedding can often overshadow the pressures of getting married. Important. Despite the steady rise in divorce rates, most people still think of marriage as a permanent institution. A study of newlyweds found that those with higher expectations of their wedding indicated Their relationship satisfaction is low.
It may sound clichéd, but maybe these people are trying to compensate through the idea that if the ceremony were perfect, their interpersonal relationships could somehow be fixed. They feel self-conscious and think everyone is secretly judging relationships. teach A world where they are not serious about relationships. All this shows that a person should be able to find joy in himself before deciding to get married.
There are alternatives to permanent tattoos, but they come with some risks
Right now, the urge to get all of your bridesmaids tattooed is eerie and dominant. In some cultures, a material called mehndi paste is used to create less permanent tattoos. These are traditionally applied to the bride and groom before the ceremony in places such as India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan. Lasts approximately 2-3 days.it can also cleaned Turns off faster with moisturizer and skin oil.
Although these mehndi or henna tattoos are temporary, you should also be aware of potential risks. FDA found Certain types of traditional henna contain PPD, which can irritate the skin and leave red marks even after the dye wears off. Some people have allergic reactions. But overall, a proper ink tattoo will last longer than these alternatives, making SIL’s claim even more ridiculous. Most people struggle to decide on a tattoo that is uniquely theirs, so it is doubtful that anyone would actually want a permanent tattoo depicting a friend’s marriage.
The comments were filled with people expressing shock at the bride, with some asking for more details on the OP.
