Bridezilla’s dream castle wedding fell apart because of her attitude and ended up having a backyard party with a pig’s head
Dear Panda, what comes to your mind when you think of your dream wedding? But at the end of the day, what really matters is declaring our undying love in front of our closest and dearest…and eating too much cake!
It’s not the venue that really matters. Still, some brides focus primarily on aesthetics and wield their financial prowess for status. Redditor u/Putrid_Ad695 revealed the details Because of her attitude, how her aunt’s dream castle wedding fell apart and how she had to settle for a backyard bash featuring a strange guest of honor, a roasted pig. Scroll down for the full text!
Editor u/Putrid_Ad695 She kindly answered some of our questions and explained why Auntie was never cruel to others, just different priorities, which made her put status above all else. gave meread more bored panda interview them.
A wedding is a celebration of love, not a show of great wealth.Unfortunately not everyone can understand it
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who shared how her aunt had completely changed after meeting a wealthy man and how her idea of a dream wedding had completely collapsed
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My aunt quickly realized that focusing solely on status was a bad idea.
Bored Panda wanted to know more about how big OP’s aunt’s transformation was after meeting a rich man. I started with a job, worked my way up, and worked hard to achieve it myself,” redditor u/Putrid_Ad695 shared with us.
“Maybe she found a shortcut with her ex-girlfriend, got everything she wanted, had things others didn’t, and suddenly felt superior.” According to the post’s author, My aunt did not completely reject her old friends and social circles. But whenever she spends time with her, like at her parties, she says, “Ignoring her other guests, it’s obvious she’s more interested in socializing with her new friends.” bottom.”
The OP emphasized the fact that her aunt was never cruel.She had other priorities.
“At some point, status became the most important thing to her because she no longer had anyone to support her.”
We also asked redditor u/Putrid_Ad695 for their thoughts on their dream wedding. They told Bored Panda, “A small wedding of 30 to 50 guests with close friends and family somewhere in a country restaurant, hotel or event venue with nice outdoor areas, good food, music and dancing. I confided that it would be
In the meantime, I asked the OP what he thinks Bridezilla’s family and friends could do to calm them down and bring them back to their senses. I don’t think you can,” said the redditor.
“What you can do is tell them that their behavior is ruining their relationship, and hope that in the end they will understand it.
The rushed wedding was chaotic, but nearly everyone had fun
The OP explained on Reddit how her aunt changed completely after meeting her (now ex) partner 15 years ago. I became someone who was willing to cut ties with my (middle-class) friends.
Then the wedding preparations began. Her bride-to-be began subtly alienating her many friends from all her social circles, clearly her wealth and reputation meant a lot to her. So much so that she’s started cracking down on what her guests wear. After all, they had to look like they were standing next to her in her €10,000 dress. “Bridezilla” was in a lot of trouble when the decision was made.
Entrance, stage left, backyard party. It’s “a handful of beer benches and tables, champagne from the groom’s expensive collection, fancy decorations out of place intended for a castle, a really bad DJ, fancy three-tiered wedding cakes and food you can order from the bakery.” It was a hodgepodge.” Hurry up the butcher shop.” The star of the show was the pig that the best man spent half an afternoon tearing apart.
The pig’s head then became the centerpiece of an unintentional party game. “The groom and his friends began to decorate his head with sunglasses, hats and other accessories. left early.
No one wants the happy couple to be embarrassed on their big day, but the truth is, there’s no such thing as a “perfect” wedding. Celebrations have aspects that you cannot control. What you can control, however, is how you react to the ups and downs. One thing that can help with this is focusing on the main reasons for getting married. It’s about celebrating the love between you and your soulmate. No Roast Pig or Castle Chaos can take it away from you!
It’s impossible to control every detail, so it’s best to accept everything your way
In a previous interview with Bored Panda, Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, shared their thoughts on how couples getting married can approach. embarrassing situation And things don’t go according to plan.
“Honestly, the only real way to deal with something going wrong in the day is to just take a punch and try to have a sense of humor about it. What else can you do?!” they said. .
“There’s no point in ruining a day you’ve planned so long and hard. It’s just a party. What matters is the marriage,” stressed the wedding expert. In the meantime, friends, family, organizers and venue staff will help take the weight off your shoulders.
“The hallmark of a great wedding crew is someone who does everything they can to reduce stress for the couple getting married. We are there to help make your day better and more enjoyable.